MY MOTHER IN LAW AND BROTHER IN LAW LIVE WITH US IN A TWO BEDROOM HOUSE..THEY DON'T WORK AND TELL ME I SHOULD BE GIVING MY BABY OTHER THINGS BESIDES BABY FOOD AND NURSE THEY GIVE HIM THINGS LIKE POP CAKE AND I TELL THEM NO MY HUSBAND GETS UPSET BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT ME TO SAY ANYTHING TO THEM ALSO I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SON THEY TELL ME I SHOULD LEAVE MY 5 MONTH OLD HOME AND WORK SO I CAN GET A BIGGER HOUSE FOR ALL OF US ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE HAVING ISSUES CAUSE MY FAMILY ISN'T ALLOWED TO VISIT THEY LIVE IN DETROIT HE SAYS STUFF TO MY FAMILY BUT I CAN'T SAY NOTHIN TO HIS?? AM I WRONG??HOW CAN I EXPLAIN THIS TO MY HUSBAND
Why aren't they working? You are working, as a SAHM. I would not put up with it. The whole situation is negative and that will effect your baby--the tension, the fights, the poor examples. Hey, I'm from MI, not to far from Detroit? What is that about? Tons of great people are from the D! You need to talk to your husband, and clearly state what you expect from him. Why are these people living with you anyway? I think if he won't stop it now, he probably won't ever so you need to figure out if you can live with this situation and make it a positive or if you need to consider your alternatives. Not seeing your family and isolating you is emotionally abusive, so watch out for your needs too.
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