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what are some warning signs...

what are some warning signs that your man is cheating on you?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:12 AM on Apr. 11, 2009 in Relationships

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  • In my case he withdrew from sex. I also found some site that he had an account to adult friend finder. I found texts, but everyone is different, im sorry youre going through with this its very painful but stay strong and good luck I hope he's not cheating!!

    Answer by Breezy1988 at 12:15 AM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • If he locks his cell phone or puts it on vibrate.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:43 AM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • A few from my own experience:

    Suddenly changing passwords on things
    Always knowing where his phone is, leaving it in his vehicle overnight rather than bringing it in to charge
    Taking his calls outside
    Working late more often
    Defensive over small things, tries to start fights and then leaves
    Spending more time with newer friends that you do not know, or barely know
    Hiding cell phone or credit card bills
    Missing cash in large amounts with no (or a very lame ass) explanation
    Loss of interest in sex, OR... wants lots of sex and suddenly knows new tricks or asks you for stuff you've never done
    Last but not least (and quite honestly, most likely it came first) youre GUT feeling

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:50 AM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • buys new clothes, cologne and new hair style, or suddenly hsi appearance becomes more important.
    Seems to start fights and leave (they used you for their excuse to go see her)
    Unexplained things on credit card bills, or cash withdrawels that aren't explained.
    Oh man there's so many red flags but listen to your gut and if you think it's something and he says no... then ask yourself if it's something you'd do and why and if you think it's because he'd think you wer echeating... then that's why he shouldn't do it either

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 2:58 AM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • We need to post a check list , cause this is a common asked question,and yes the first warning sign is your gut feeling, then check that phone as soon as he in tht shower or sleeping if it not locked already, go for the bill check the #'s of common calls, but call from a friends phone to here the voice.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:54 AM on Apr. 12, 2009

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