My husband and I have not had sex in almost a week. I've made moves on him and done everything I could think of to get him to sleep with me but he's always like not tonight maybe tomorrow, I'm to tired. Well this morning I went to an Easter egg hunt with our daughter, and I get home and see 3 windows up of porn sites & personal ads from craigslist that show naked woman from our area. It makes me so angry. I can see using porn if I wasn't around, or something, but he's to tired to have sex with me ever, but has plenty of time to look at porn and masturbate??? And the fact that he was looking at pics of girls in our area who put ads and stuff up because they want to hook up with someone disturbs me. How should I handle this, any advice? Obviously I don't want to blow up on him, but I want to know what's going on. Thanks!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:28 PM on Apr. 11, 2009 in Relationships
The only way to know what's going through his head is to ask him. There could be a number of reasons why he doesn't want to be with you anymore. Maybe he's not attracted to you anymore. Maybe he is selfish and doesn't want to please you. Maybe he has problems being intimate with you. Him watching porn and looking for women in the area is a BIG red flag that he's looking for a sexual relationship. My best suggestion is for you to find a marriage therapist in your area and go talk to that person so you can get to the bottom of the issues that is causing him to want to run out on your marriage. If you don't get the help you need, he'll just learn to hide it better from you and it will solve nothing. Sex isn't the main issue here. Find out what the underlying issues are.
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