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Has a man ever hit you?

Or pushed/struck/touched you in a violent manner?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:25 PM on Apr. 11, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (21)
  • Yes, and the first time he hit me was the last, I hit back and I had a wrench at the time.
    heratyc

    Answer by heratyc at 5:26 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • no... I'm the abuser in most of my relationships. but I have gotten better over time.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:27 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • Yes, and he went to jail and he' s now my ex.
    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 5:28 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • Once..an old bf that wasn't a bf for long, lol.
    ReneeK3

    Answer by ReneeK3 at 5:28 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • my ex husband did....and that is why he is my ex.
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 5:29 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • yes and i have hit back wich makes me no better.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:30 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • Don't take violence from someone that supposedly loves you. Leave, it doesn't get better it will only increase with time, even if they apologize. Men that abuse women never change it is a control issue.
    Mallorific

    Answer by Mallorific at 5:33 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • I dont know if this counts but my ex is a MMA fighter so he is very aggressive and I'll admit I hit him first and he put me in an arm bar and wouldnt let go despite how many times I apologized and asked him to stop. But yes, I started it.
    AdensMommy1107

    Answer by AdensMommy1107 at 5:34 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • Yes, my boyfriend when I was 17. Luckily, I left his ass and never had kids with him. No good piece of sh...t!!
    sweetmom1007

    Answer by sweetmom1007 at 5:34 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • yes my ex fiance had a violent temper. but I admit I had one too. he hit me, I hit him back. it was terrible. I still remember moments I thought I was gonna die, and became vulnerable thinking it was my fault, or felt sorry for him because he was abused as a child. thankfully I got strong and left him.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:45 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

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