I have a 4-year-old daughter with a very abusive ex-boyfriend and his parents have recently moved back into NH and have been asking and badgering me when their son can see thier daughter....The thing is that we have a custody agreement that states that my daughters father is allowed to see her at my discretion and he has never paid his child support that is now over $13,000 and says that he owes me nothing and also when we were dating he was abusive in everyway...So I am just wondering am I doing the right thing by telling him no that he can't see her or am I just going off on my fears that something might happen when he has our daughter????Answer Question
Nope, you are in the right. If he can't support his child, he doesn't deserve to see her. Now, courts won't agree with that because they see visitation and support as two different issues but if has visitation at your discretion then do what you feel is best.
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Just wondering if there is anybody out there who has any personal experience...