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what should i do?

i broke up with my first baby's dad about a month ago,i just found out im pregnant again but its not his,he thinks the baby's his,what should i do,i don't want to break his heart....im scared

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zaileyhonna

Asked by zaileyhonna at 10:35 PM on Apr. 11, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • tell him the truth!

    BeautifulMomof1

    Answer by BeautifulMomof1 at 10:36 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • how can you really be sure its not his? if you had sex w/him at the same time you were w/another man, than it could be either one of theirs. if you hadn't had sex w/him in awhile then he should know better than to think its his
    vabchmommy

    Answer by vabchmommy at 10:37 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • Just be honest honey. Nothing worse then going through the pregnancy with him thinking it's his, tell him the truth and the fathers, if he doesn't want to be involved then so be it, at least you know.
    Lizamafers

    Answer by Lizamafers at 10:37 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • tell him the truth. Dont lie to him anymore it will make matters worse i know im currently going thru this. I lied to my so and im trying to fix this now.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:39 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

  • All he has to do is get a paternity test, would you really want him to find out that way? Besides, your baby deserves to know who his/her father really is. You would be taking that away from the real father too. Plus, isn't it just eating at you? We all make mistakes, but you won't be able to heal those mistakes until you tell the truth.
    dawn_misayo

    Answer by dawn_misayo at 11:25 PM on Apr. 11, 2009

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