My friend has been making some really stupid decisions. She just met a guy, and people WARNED her he was a player and she said she didn't care. So within a week she was sleeping with him, unprotected. Then she finds out ONE of his other women is his neighbor and all of a sudden it's a problem. So she confronts him and goes off because he put her at risk for STD's and whatever else because they weren't using a condom. So she talks to him and all he does is apologize for not telling her, and now they're back to sleeping together again, unprotected. So honestly at this point, whatever happens to her is her own damn fault and I've told her that much. But I know that sooner or later something else is going to happen and I really just don't want to hear about it because I'm already forseeing it. She is one of my closest friends but I really want nothing to do with whatever bullsh*t she is getting herself into. con't...
Asked by Anonymous at 5:38 PM on Apr. 12, 2009 in Relationships
Just say nothing and hold your views privately. If you care about her, you really can't separate the 2 issues, IMO. Be a friend. From what you've shared, SHE put her own self at risk by not making the guy use a condom, so if she did/does catch anything that would be 50% her responsibility. We can't make others see our views, live by our views, or do anything like we would [wouldn't that be easy just once in awhile if they would listen] so be there as a friend and she'll eventually see the light. If you say anything, essentially you are adding to the drama and she may drift away and get closer to him.
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