Ok so my Easter was busy, and it was fun...until my twin called around 6 to tell me that a girl ran into her and said she was a cousin of my friend's. my friend was also in foster care with me. we met at my adopted parents. she said that my (adopted) dad raped her...what do i do? do i ask my parents if this girl was ever in their care, let alone whether anything bad happened? do i tell my friend that her cousin said this?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:36 PM on Apr. 12, 2009 in Adoption
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Answer by Anonymous at 4:43 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
as of now MY sister (who is 30) remembers all kinds of men raping her, there is always a new fellow popping up that she "remembers". She has serious mental illness though & is very paranoid & pretty much believes anything her brain can conjure up. But she somehow lives a life outside the loony bin. My sister was also in foster care (as was I) she was in a wonderful home though. Woman (or shall i say girls) can do/say strange things for attention & sympathy. Ask yourself if you think she is %100 trustworthy, and also ask yourself if there is a chance of some depression or mental illness w/ her. If she is speaking of someone you care for, then maybe you should be open about it, If it is true, that may be something you need to know.
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