My fiance and I are raising his daughter. Her real mom gets her 2 or 3 times a month, for a few hours. I hate sending her there, cuz she really doesn't know how to care for a child. But, she's trying to make some changes, so we're trying to give here the room to do so. She got a bigger apartment, so Willow will have her own room. I think she's wanting her to start spending the night, once in a while.
QUESTION- How do I ask (or rather, DEMAND) that she and her boyfriend don't smoke in the house AT ALL? Even when the kiddo isn't there. Even the residue left from old smoke irritates her skin and her sensitive little system. They don't seem to understand this. They think its fine as long as they don't smoke in front of her.
Tomorrow is the first time Willow's going to their new place. I'm sending over a bag of toys and some blankets and stuff. Should I use that as incentive? "I'll send stuff over if you dont smoke there!" LOL.
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