My grandma is dying of cancer, We have become closer in the past few years but she was never really a nice woman to me or my brothers, she always had clear favorites and was downright mean to us. My mother was visiting her last week and called me to say that she was cleaning her garage and found every single pitcure of me and my brothers in a box in the garage but in her home she had a pitcure of every grandchild but us three hanging up. My mom was crying and wonders what she did wrong, then my mom asked me to write my grandma a letter telling her all the wonderfull things she did for me. I tried to but i couldnt even though the relationship has gotten better the past hurts and my feeling is now that she is sick that shes going to take this letter as suck up for money after she is gone. And honestly I dont want anything. so i sent her a card saying have a nice easter and sent pics of my kids was this the right choice?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:35 AM on Apr. 13, 2009 in Relationships
I am so sorry this must be so painful for you. I have that type of strained relationship with my mother but had a awesome relationship with my grandmother. Until she recently died of stomach cancer. I guess you could say it's the opposite of what your going through. I think you did the most noble thing, I completely agree with how you feel and admire the strength you have, rejection from a family member is a hard situation to grapple with. You did good momma.
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