My name is Rachael and I am 20 years old with a two year old son. I was very young when I got pregnant and was going to place him for adoption because I simply was not ready. But emotions changed and soon after so did my desisions. Sometimes I still feel like i'm not ready, sometimes i feel like i'm not happy. But I do love my son with all of my heart, it is just hard to get through the day sometimes when i feel like i should be a normal 20 year old. I feel like i am losing a part of my youth.
Answer by dawn_misayo at 12:18 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
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Answer by m-avi at 12:18 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
exactly what is a normal 20 year old? i had my son when i was 20. my advice is to grow up. you made the decision to keep this baby, you have to grow up and be an adult now. just enjoy being with your child. he needs you to be there and guide him to become a mature adult
Answer by Anonymous at 12:19 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
Keep in mind that when your son is grown and goes away to college, you will still be young enough to get out there and have fun again. A lot of women revert back to being a teenager when they have kids young and then their child gets older and moves out of just becomes more independent. But you will still be young and be able to have fun!
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