This goes for everything. Do you think your family and friends really care about you if they just tell you what you want to hear? Wouldn't you want to know the truth? Wouldn't the best way to show you care is by being frank, not by sugar coating things?
I ask because I was in a situation where I was destroying myself. I didn't eat right. I was a drug addict. All of my actions could of killed me. Yet the people who claimed to love me didn't even try to reach out and tell me the truth. they turned a blind eye and hoped for the best. Do you think that was showing they loved me, or cared? I don't think so.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:01 PM on Apr. 13, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs
Wow there are a lot of people who would rather kiss butt that tell the truth.
I personally would have told you. If that made you angry. I would explain that I was trying to be a real friend. Not a fake friend.
If you couldn't accept that then that is your buisness.
Answer by mo2a27 at 5:33 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 5:10 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
Answer by RhondaVeggie at 5:10 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
Some people will pretent they don't see it hoping it goes away because they don't know what to do or how to handle it and than most with an addiction don't want to hear about it unless they are ready to change, the change has to start within the addict, we can tell them they have a problem but they won't listen because they are in denial until they are ready......
Answer by lisarose45 at 5:11 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
Answer by NotPanicking at 5:14 PM on Apr. 13, 2009
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