My bf and I have not been having the nicest time here lately to sya the least. I tried talking to him this past weekend and it turned into a huge blow -up. Instead of talking and making valid points, he says there is no talking to me and all of his comments are nothing but smart ass comments. Then we got back to the house and he said this arguement is not happening now, I asked when will we be able to talk.. he said (being a smart ass again) I don't know, one day...
Since then things have been ok, but nothing has been resolved. We have been getting along, but honestly, I think we have just because I have not brought up the unresolved issues (that are still a big deal to me anyways) So I guess they are just supposed to fester until the next big blow up?
I am not sure what to do ir how to handle it... any advice ladies? Please help, no bashing :)
Asked by Anonymous at 1:05 PM on Apr. 14, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by 1and1make3 at 1:11 PM on Apr. 14, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 1:23 PM on Apr. 14, 2009
I recommend this book. Hold Me Tight : Seven conversations for a lifetime of love by Dr. Sue Johnson. This book describes and deals with what you are going though.
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