Please tell me there are plenty of you that feel the same way. Does your childs father treat you like scum on the ground and not apreciate one thing you do for their child. Is the dad completely not in their life?
My kids dad does not even make a attempt to see the kids nor pay a dime of child support. But he can email me just to tell me that he hates me and that he hope I die. It hurts really bad to hear this because I struggle every day to raise these kids and to hear him talk to me like that but not ask about his kids makes me enraged! I am a good mother and his talk is nothing less than him being mad about getting child support papers but I still cant understand how a man can not want to see his own flesh and blood. Anyone else going through the no dad around at all?
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My sons' father last saw his children 32 years before he died. They were two and five years old. He was thousands of dollars in arrears with his court ordered child support. It was just a fluke that we learned of his passing. In reading his obituary we all learned that he had went on to have another family which included three more children. His obituary did not acknowledge his oldest sons. Please do not hate your own child's father. When we make bad decisions in this life there are always consequences. Know that whatever bad decisions he makes he will have to live with the result. That of course means that he will never be quite as happy as he would have been otherwise. He may someday have a change of heart or not but he will always be accountable before God. Take heed to your own spirit. Ask God to help you do that.
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