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Gay husband?

My husband wants to watch him have sex with another guy. Does that make him gay?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:00 PM on Apr. 14, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • No, it makes him bi-curious.
    MizKizzy

    Answer by MizKizzy at 4:01 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • I would say bisexual.
    bmattacch

    Answer by bmattacch at 4:01 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • If he dumps you afterward, *then* he may be gay.
    MizKizzy

    Answer by MizKizzy at 4:01 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • HE himself wants to see himself having sex with a man?

    I would have serious questions for him. My dh would roll over dead before he would do that.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:01 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • okay i say leave get out
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:02 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • WOW! I'm not so worried about the "gay" factor as I am that he wants to have sex with someone else besides you. I would not be cool with that regardless of whether he's top or bottom. I don't think I could stay with a man that even seriously considered that (man or woman).

    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 4:04 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • Go ask a straight guy his answer will be GAY!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:05 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • My friend is married to a guy that claimed "bi-curious" throughout their relationship.. fast forward 4 kids and 11 years later and guess what? He finally came clean and said he is fully Gay! He was afraid his friends and ( man-ly redneck) family would disown him so he decided to try the "straight" family guy life.. and has lived a life for years! Not only his life has been affected, my friends as well!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:07 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • Yes, this is leading toward being gay. That's not important, what is, is how you are feeling or going to deal with his dabbling in sex with another man and will it lead to more men.
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 4:25 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

  • I don't really understand the question. If he's wanting to watch you have sex with another guy, I'd say no. If he wants to have sex with another guy, while you watch, I'd say yes.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:00 PM on Apr. 14, 2009

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