She had seen this bf outside of school (at our home, supervised) and it got out of control...they could not seem to find much to do together besides hold hands, hug, watch you tube , select movies (that HE wanted to watch), never wanted to go for a walk w/us, wouldn't go swimming, didn't want to sit by the fire and toast marshmallows (doesn't like them) , but wanted to go out to the backyard in the dark w/dd, then kissing started up, wouldn't call his Dad to pick him up when I said it was time, spent far too much time over here and my dd stopped wanting to see her friends. We said no more dating until perhaps 16, we'll see and explained that she needed some boundaries. She still sees him in school and texts him on a limited basis. So, now she asks if she can possibly "and you don't need to answer, but would you think about it", go to an Aerosmith concert w/him and his Dad. "it's not a date really"...ya, right. ThoughtsAnswer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 8:25 AM on Apr. 15, 2009
Answer by 2wndrfl_btrflys at 8:26 AM on Apr. 15, 2009
Answer by Mamaof2010 at 8:28 AM on Apr. 15, 2009
Depends. What do you think of his Dad? You have to be careful because you don't want to be to overbearing or she could rebel. If you think his father is responsible enough to keep an eye on them then I say let her go. Sit down with her and let her know that you trust her and let her know that you will be texting her periodically to check up on her. You sound like a good mom so I'm sure raised a good girl. Have more faith in her.
Answer by vnw1405 at 8:29 AM on Apr. 15, 2009
Answer by r_elizabeth2290 at 8:38 AM on Apr. 15, 2009
Answer by Vanessannd at 8:45 AM on Apr. 15, 2009
Answer by tel4him at 8:51 AM on Apr. 15, 2009
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Answer by ohbladi at 9:16 AM on Apr. 15, 2009
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