im just wondering, because i love my husband the best way i know how to love and its not good enough for him and he says somedays im 'really trying and being good' and then two days later i go back to the way i was before. i've been the best to him out of all my other boyfriends ever and i do love him i guess i just feel like i ruined my life by having a baby and getting married at 20. i just dont know how to be better, no matter how hard i try i cant be a better person for him, i can only do the best i know how. what do you think?
Change only happens when someone WANTS to change. Your probably depressed. I got married at 20 too. I barely knew the guy too when i got pregnant. It was VERY hard, he had children already and 6 months after my daughter was born he got FULL custody of them. They only saw their mother every other weekend. So, to me it felt like i gave birth to triplets at 20. I was a full time mama, & slowly learning that my husband didn't love ME, but what he WANTED me to be. And eventually, i learned i couldn't be anyone but myself. I left him, & found someone who wouldn't change ONE thing about me faults and all. That is unconditional love. My first husband wanted me to be something i was not, we were both un-happy. But now i count my blessings daily. I was blessed to find someone who loved me & all my faults.
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