I have a good male friend (maybe you can call him even my best 'male' friend). We talk almost every day, exchange insults, fart around and like to be around eachother. We do tell eachother that we love eachother, but it's strictly platonic. He's almost like a brother to me.
Now here's the question..Do you think we can be truelly be friends, with no Love or sexual feelings attached? One of my friends suggested that maybe he has, deep down, feelings for me, but I think it's total nonsense.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:23 AM on Apr. 16, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by vabchmommy at 10:26 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
Yes and no. I have a male best friend but I've never met him. I've been chatting with him for about 7 years. He has told me that he had feelings for me in the past. I'd never have a male friend that I hung out with.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 10:27 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 10:28 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by amy31308 at 10:29 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by AdensMommy1107 at 10:29 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by Owl_Feather at 10:30 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:32 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 10:48 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
OF COURSE!!!!!! But, i think some people are better at it than others. My best friend is a guy. He has been my best friend since we were 12 years old. I guess when you grow up with someone, you don't think about having sex with them. Funny, because i am the exact same way w/ my best friend Raffi. I tell him i love him ALL the time, just like i do my girlfriends. People have said to me that he really had feelings for me deep down, but that is just NOT TRUE! We have known each other long enough that we know each other like the backs of our hands, and if he DID have feelings for me, he had PLENTY of time to show then when we were single & playing video games in my bedroom. YES MALES & FEMALES CAN BE FRIENDS. But, i think only mature people can do this really.
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:31 AM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by dawn_misayo at 11:33 AM on Apr. 16, 2009