If you are an Amom, have you ever come across your child's bmom on here? I read some of the posts where the Bmoms are either taking the letters that the Amom wrote and posting it for everyone to read, or admitting to stalker like behavior (driving by the aparents house or work repeatedly, trying to find them on myspace and watching them, going to parks near their house, etc etc). Has anyone ever caught wind of the bmom doing this or lying about you, how did you react.
If you are a Bmom, have you ever come across the Amom spilling all of your personal information on here? What did you do?
I just wonder sometimes if everyone knows what they are doing when they post things. If you think your adoption is closed now or rocky now, just imagine what the other party would feel like.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:32 AM on Apr. 16, 2009 in Adoption
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What a very sad post. I knew my adoptee sons address (20 mins from me) his whole childhood and I never once did a drive by. I'd been over there as a guest several times when I was pregnant but never after he was born. Sadly they didn't do full open adoptions then, but if they had I'm sure I would have been invited over there afterwards too.
I have heard of bmoms having to resort to copying pics of myspace but only because the aparents didn't keep the promises they made in order to get her to give them her baby. I believe I never felt the desire to drive by because I knew that I could trust amom to send the pictures she'd promised. As for myspace, amom and I are myspace friends.
Where's the trust? Where's the openness? what about the best interests of the adoptee who needs the birth family in his life? (not talking about foster care adoption here) This question makes me sad.
Answer by onethentwins at 3:37 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
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