You probably aren't showing, unless you are super tiny and skinny and the baby has nowhere else to go. I thought I was showing at 11 weeks too but it turns out pregnancy gives you really bad gas. And it makes you bloated. I bought some gas-x and take it once a day with my prenatals and dinner. Then when I wake up in the morning, no more belly. It also helps to excercise just a tiny bit, get your bowels moving so you don't get gas bubbles stuck in you all day. I'm 20 too and almost 14 weeks. This is my first pregnancy as well but I have a lot of love and support. If you don't have it, go buy "What to expect when you're expecting" It is the pregnancy bible! It will help with EVERY question you have.
at 12:56 PM on Apr. 16, 2009