I've always heard the older and wiser you become that you two (in a marriage) will be more understanding, and feel as "one" more than you did before. Going on 3 years now, and I have never been so disrespected in the past like I am now. He has seemed to get worse as time goes by, but has especially shown a big difference in the last 9 months or so. He called me a dumb ass last night, and told me he didn't love me and was leaving. He's been threatening to leave a lot lately, and sometimes he does, but comes back a day or two later. He told me he didn't care about me, and when I ask him about why he treats me like that, but doesn't treat his family like me, he always says something like "f*** no, I ain't' going to." He's told me he doesn't like my body, and told me what he didn't like about it. I asked him if he just right out thought I was worthless, and he said yes.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:16 PM on Apr. 16, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by rhope4 at 5:34 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:19 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
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Answer by justjacki at 5:34 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:39 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by sweetsarah303 at 5:58 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
I know he's not cheating because he's been at home with me all day, every day with me. Besides the times he left, and I knew exactly where he was, and who he was with. Believe me, I don't rule that out. I have no trust in him, and I do keep a very close eye on him. Though I know he hasn't cheated, I have thought many times, that with the way he treats me, he will end up doing it one day. Thank you for your help ladies.
Answer by Anonymous at 6:23 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by ALEENAzMOMMY09 at 6:37 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
Some people never grow up. None the less, if you want to salvage your marriage - I would recommend you watch the movie "Fireproof" together,as a start.
Answer by MamaDiane at 7:02 PM on Apr. 16, 2009
Answer by guardmp_MOM at 7:25 PM on Apr. 16, 2009