No talking back
Pick it up if you get it out
Clean up after yourself
Be respectful of others
Do what your told to do
Bed time is bed time.
No means no no matter what so don't ask daddy
You get 3 warnings and then your grounded for the day
Your the parent and you have to be consistent with her so she see's your not joking. Start taking away her tv time, outside play and toys until she see's she doesn't rule the roost.