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more kids or not

Okay so im only 21 i got a 1 year old and a 2 year old, one is adopted, anyways, I love kids and i love being pregnant but I know I couldnt stay sane and have more kids.. now i want to get my tubs cut or whateve, but again i dont since i am going true a divorce, what if i meet someone that dont have kids that wants kids i wouldnt want to take that away from them.. but on the other hand I guess my thing is i want to make sure i dont get pregnant but what if i change my mind?? anyone had theirs done that could tell me their reason or just some inside on it

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:18 PM on Apr. 18, 2009 in Health

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  • I haven;t had my tubes tied but as young as you are and going through a divorce, i wouldn't do it. Can you just take birth control?

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:22 PM on Apr. 18, 2009

  • I could but thats how i got pregnant last time, then i got the depo and it made my hair fall out and i got really sick so it doesnt leave that many other options.. other then condoms and i want 100% cause i know i dont want kids right now.. deffently cant handle that...

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:36 PM on Apr. 18, 2009

  • Having a tubal isn't a 100% sure thing. Why not trying to stay abstinent until you do meet mr. right??

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:12 PM on Apr. 18, 2009

  • stayin abstinents not gonna work! shes 21!!! and im sure shes thought of that already! lol why dont u just get an IUD. its near perfect..u can have it taken out whenever ur ready to have kids! there are a few side effects like discharge and periods..but overall its worth it! and placement doesnt even hurt in most cases! i have the Paragard-the copper one; and ive always been happy with it. plus it has no hormones so i cud nurse my daughter and not have any PMS-since i never do that! let me know if u need more info! Ps: my Dr wudnt let me tie my tubes b/c i said i wanted more kids! ur young, tubals are permenant..u never know what ull want in the future!

    Answer by MamaCass2003 at 4:48 PM on Apr. 18, 2009

  • well ladies ill be honest, I am abstinent right now, but if I were to meet someone I would want to stay like that till i wanted kids.. cause i might not want kids for 5 years or so..
    but thanks for the info.

    the IUD, read some thing about the side affects.. bit worried about that since what happened with the depo..


    Answer by Anonymous at 5:39 PM on Apr. 18, 2009

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