I stupidly had a fling with a guy, and within days of having (protected) sex, I came up with an STD. I know for a fact I was clean before him. So I told him and he denied it was him. After giving him the info about this STD we now shared, he is asymptomatic (shows no signs), he realized it was him and knew who he got it from. I was furious with him, but he claims he didn't know.
When my DH and I were dating I didn't tell him right away. After 2 months, I finally told him. He was mad, rightfully so. Luckily, I have never passed it to him or any of our children. We have been very careful for the last 5 years. It wasn't easy, but I didn't want him to go through what I went through. I'd rather know up front, even if it is embarrassing.
at 4:11 AM on Apr. 19, 2009