if theres one thing im not its a liar to myself. i lie to everyone else but not myself. i will be the first person to admit that i am a horrible mother and i had no business having sex let alone making a baby! but i did the noble thing and kept him. it IS hard. some days i want to run away, but i dont. but for people to say that people like me who admit that they dont have all the answers or even know the questions should 'have their uterus's ripped out' is a bit much dont you think? my son was a 'mistake,' but i dont regret having him. i do regret not being careful. and if that makes me a bad person, then so be it.
Answer by Ginny19 at 5:03 PM on Apr. 19, 2009
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Answer by EiEiO at 3:22 PM on Apr. 19, 2009
I can't say that I understand your situation, or claim sympathize your feelings, but I truely applaud you for not kidding yourself. You aren't pretending that this is what you wanted for yourself. All three of my children were "surprises"! While I love them with all of my heart, and am so very glad to have them, I still often wonder what I could have made of myself if I hadn't gotten pregnant at 17. What if I hadn't gotten pregant AGAIN so soon? What if I hadn't have had a baby with my new husband? What could I have been???
I hope you don't view this an insult. It's a compliment in the hugest sense.
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