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What would cause you to leave or divorce your husband?

Cheating, I would not under any circumstances forgive him

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:17 PM on Apr. 19, 2009 in Just for Fun

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Answers (15)
  • CHEATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • Cheating, drug usage or any kind of physical abuse are all deal breakers.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:20 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • stds so cheating!
    2mothershelpers

    Answer by 2mothershelpers at 11:21 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • any physical or sexual abuse of myself or my child is an immediate separation & eventual divorce. if he cheated on me & i caught him in the act in our bed it would be divorce (if i didnt kill him first).
    if he cheated on my & it wasnt in our bed, i would be angry as hell, but i would try to work it out.

    imo when someone cheats in his marriage bed he/she has no regard/respect for his/her spouse & the marriage is beyond repair.
    okmanders

    Answer by okmanders at 11:25 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • Although all of the answers above I agree with, I think dressing up in my clothes would be a deal breaker.
    emtmommyamanda

    Answer by emtmommyamanda at 11:26 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • Physical or verbal abuse. I would say cheating but I think he has done that before and we are still together sooo...
    violaswamp

    Answer by violaswamp at 11:35 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • Physical, verbal or sexual abuse. I also would say cheating but my husband got caught 4 years ago and I took him back...... He hasn't done it since! (He knows I have a fabulous lawyer!)
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:41 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • Abuse of any kind of me or the kids would be a definate deal breaker. All the others I would make up my mind when/if they happened.
    -Ashley
    spiritguide_23

    Answer by spiritguide_23 at 11:43 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • Cheating, I dunno. There are some people who are the chronic cheater. There are others that feel neglected and then cheat. Not saying it's an excuse but both parties are then at fault.

    Drug use - I'd let him go to rehab once and try and straighten up. If he didn't I'd leave.

    Beating me or my kids - Leave. No second chances.
    MoonLover06

    Answer by MoonLover06 at 11:44 PM on Apr. 19, 2009

  • Wanted to add prison. My DH is in prison and I know what he did and I don't agree with what he did I don't agree with his sentence. I love him and take it one day at a time. But if he hurt someone like an armed robbery, assault for no reason, etc. then that would be a deal breaker.
    MoonLover06

    Answer by MoonLover06 at 11:46 PM on Apr. 19, 2009