I'm considering ending my marriage. The way my husband is, I cannot share my plans with him, when I'm ready I'll just have to go. (He's not abusive, just incredibly stubborn, childsh and unreasonable. He would sabotage my attempt if he knew what I was planning.) I'm may have an opportunity to move about a 1000 miles away, do I leave while I'm still married and let him take me to court for custody of the kids? Can I do that? He'll never let me take them that far voluntarily, but I heard that I can because at present there's no court order governing us. I just want to try and make the best life I can for my kids.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:11 AM on Apr. 20, 2009 in General Parenting
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Answer by Anonymous at 1:47 AM on Apr. 20, 2009
Just because you want to end it...don't mean your kids want to... Your kids need their father... maybe you need counseling?
Answer by Anonymous at 1:59 AM on Apr. 20, 2009
How cruel. You want out that is fine but you need to be a woman about it and get a divorce. You need to make sure your children are near their father. I hate women who do this and act like dad is expendable. Men love thier kids too. I wish I could tell him your plans. I feel really sorry for your kids.
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