Last night me and my SO were joking around and he said something about he could control me if he wanted to but he gives me freedom because he trusts me so i told him that the only way i'd even put up with him controlling me was if we were married and I was cheating on him. The whole thing was a joke. He got really serious and said "If we go a year without fighting (physically), I want to get married. But we can get engaged now". I thought he thought that I was trying to get him to marry me so I told him that I didn't mean it that way and he said he knew, that he wants to marry me. About the fighting, I'm not that type of person and he has never layed a hand on me so that confused me. I know he had a 3 year relationship with a girl who would do everything she could (including hit him) until he would restrain her and/or hit her back. I trust him not to do that to me but I keep the history in the back of my head. Cont.
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