My SO is a big guy (read overweight). I am not thin, but noting compared to him. he actually asks me once in awhile while we are folding laundry if my pants are his sons! his son is only 6... but a big boy like his dad! anyway, none of my friends think we belong, my guy is big and dont dress well. and i tend to take care of myself and my appearance. i know he knows it, ive mentioned it and he sometimes makes more of an effort on special occassions. part of the issue is that he just dont care. honestly dont care. how can i make him care about his appearance? i compliment him when he does dress nicer. im at my wits end about it. i can actually see peple do a double take sometimes when they realize we are "together" like if we kiss in public. and his hygeine... he says he showers every other day. he is up before me and uses the other bathroom, so i am not 100% sure that he does. i bathe everyday.
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