My DH had a bad divorce and his ex has full custody of his 12yr old son. He gets to see him every other wkend. My SS is open with me and tells me how he really feels about things, and he seems to be able to be himself with me but when he's with his dad and other family members, he puts on an act.
For eg, he tells me things, he'd never tell others like, he says his aunt (who is fighting cancer and doesnt have much hair) looks like a 'retard' and says if i ever look like that he would never talk to me.
For his b'day he was expecting a laptop and when he got clothes instead he called his cousins/aunt cheap for giving him ugly shirts he's never wear.
He says means things about everyone, like he was punching a coke bottle saying 'look, this is my dad and this is how i want to hit him' since he didnt buy him a new Xbox game.
He only confindes in me of how he really feels. Should i let my DH know about what he says????
Asked by Anonymous at 8:43 PM on Apr. 20, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Buffie95 at 10:06 PM on Apr. 20, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 8:49 PM on Apr. 20, 2009
Answer by GMR at 9:11 PM on Apr. 20, 2009
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