Hi all...I am in a lesbian relationship for the 1st time. She is wonderful, funny, intelegent and has a increadable insight. I don't know what to do about the fact that she can not stand my 13 yo daughter. She can see right through her and knows she in manipulative , selfish and sneaky. She has been this way for years. Anyway she doesn't really care to be around her what so ever. I can not ignore my kid although I too can now see the real girl. I am often torn between the two of them. I want my gf but am obligated to my daughter.
What to do???
Your DD should always come first IMO. No matter if she is a bad kid or not.
Answer by Navymama at 9:14 PM on Apr. 20, 2009
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Answer by mamaada at 9:20 PM on Apr. 20, 2009
In any relationship your child should come first. Why can't your gf help you to get your dd's attitude straightened out? Actually, what have you done to straighten out your dd's attitude? Who's the parent anyway? Sounds to me like the issue is less with your gf or your dd, but with you. Maybe you need to evaluate your life and your priorities.
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