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How do you Stop Being Used ?

You Love Them

They do Not want you

I do not want to do more than chat

I want to end the relationship

dont ask, who. what, where.

I'm being used

Either way someone will be hurt, the other mad as heck.

I know just end it, stop hoping.


Asked by Anonymous at 10:51 PM on Apr. 20, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • one is only used as far as one allows him/herself to be used. Enough is enough. Each person much deal with the outcome. End it so each can come to grips with reality. To not end it gives mix messages and prolongs agony. That's just cruel. end it now.

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:12 AM on Apr. 21, 2009

  • exactly

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:53 PM on Apr. 20, 2009

  • I'm in the same boat. I know what I need to do but it doesn't make it easy.

    Answer by ShoesRLove at 10:55 PM on Apr. 20, 2009

  • I feel obligated and guilty


    Answer by Anonymous at 10:57 PM on Apr. 20, 2009

  • Maybe this could help you.

    How many lives do you have? Only one right? Isn't time that you start living it to its fully potential? Isn't time to be happy and enjoy the little simple things in life? When is the last time in that relationship that you smile and felt great about it? Do you want to live the rest of your life like this? When are you going to be in the drivers sit of your own life? How about now? How about you say NO FREAKING WAY, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. And start living. Good luck : )

    Answer by bebita at 11:06 PM on Apr. 20, 2009