So my dh & I have had a 3some with my bestfriend many times. He recently decided he doesn't want to any more. But I & she on the other hand do. She is very vocal about the idea of doing it again while I'm not b/c I know he's not jumping for the oppertunity. We were all drinking taquila shooters the other night & they both became interested in th idea once again trying to get me in the mood. I was no where near as blitzed as them so I stopped drinking to avoid the situation. It didn't happen & the next day nothing was said.
The thing is that I know it will happen again & I want to give in but I'm worried he'll be angry with "me" in the morning for letting it happen instead of stopping it. But I'm wondering if I can just (& I know this is horrible to say) use the alcohol as an excuse. Am I being a terrible wife if he wants it at the ime but may not be happy about it in the morning and I let it happen anyway?
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