I have twins who are now 3 and a 6 yr old. My son was 2 when I had the twins. My twins have red hair also so they attract a lot of attention. I always feel bad for my oldest b/c people constantly stop us saying how cute the twins are, where did they get their red hair, etc. but no one even acknowleges my oldest. You'll find that its much easier to leave the twins at home b/c people will keep stopping you & asking questions, so it takes forever to get something done. All you can do is make her feel special too. Take time out for just you & her w/out the twins. Its definitely hard especially in the beginning when the twins will require so much from you. She might enjoy helping you feed them, etc. Good luck to you!! The twins will be a lot of fun!! Its so cute when they start to interact w/ each other.
at 1:15 PM on Apr. 22, 2009