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Is this wrong?

If your BF keeps getting back together with you. Yet, he really doesn't want to be with you...is that wrong or is it just him trying not to hurt your feelings????

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:12 PM on Apr. 21, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • if he doesn't want to be with you then yes its wrong to keep leading you on. Is he breaking up with you when he has another girl and then taking you back when he doesn't?
    brailynsmama08

    Answer by brailynsmama08 at 5:16 PM on Apr. 21, 2009

  • Is being together something you want? Is it hurting you? Does he say he loves you, but then leave you? If he is saying one thing but doing another then it's wrong. If he's like look I don't want a relationship and you hope he changes his mind, then you're wrong. If you aren't getting what you want out of this relationship, then leave it and don't look back. If he comes back then make sure you make your wants and needs known. He knows that he can get what he wants from you, but if he's not giving anything back, then he's toxic and you should stay far away from him.
    dawn_misayo

    Answer by dawn_misayo at 5:16 PM on Apr. 21, 2009

  • Maybe both. But it's definitely wrong. You guys are wasting each other's time.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:26 PM on Apr. 21, 2009

  • You are in control of your life. If he doesn't like you then quit letting him come back. Come with me and we'll go buy some self esteem on Ebay together. I can always use some extra.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:31 PM on Apr. 21, 2009

  • I think you answered your own question.

    ..a relationship is something both people want to be in. To willingly care for eah other and willingly grow together.

    Do you see that for the both of you?

    aMbeR012005

    Answer by aMbeR012005 at 5:45 PM on Apr. 21, 2009

  • yes it's wrong and stupid so stop it
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 5:47 PM on Apr. 21, 2009

  • well if he doesnt want to be with you hes just wasting you time. you could be with someone right now that actually wants to be with you.
    mcoche08

    Answer by mcoche08 at 7:40 PM on Apr. 21, 2009

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