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My husband left 3 months ago, I just found out he has been with someone all this time. Any advise on how to stay sane?

 
bigmomma1111

Asked by bigmomma1111 at 8:54 AM on Apr. 22, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Its going to take time. Just take it day by day and you should know that it wasn't your fault. Be strong for you and your children. Oh some days are going to be worse than others and sometimes your're not going to even want to get out of bed. Thank about it like this do you think that you deserve a cheater in your life bringing you down. Go file for childsupport and get a divorce and get spousal support. You didn't do anything wrong he did. Get yourself together girl and remember what doesn't kill you will make you stronger.
    diamondmamma

    Answer by diamondmamma at 9:04 AM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • if i was you i would let him go get him spausal support and child support if kid's..and find a better man...you should not have to let him put you threw that,i am so sorry
    poohnc

    Answer by poohnc at 8:56 AM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • That is so messed up! Advice on how to stay sane...let his sorry A$$ go. Once a cheater always a cheater. You can do better. Good luck.
    mamaada

    Answer by mamaada at 9:04 AM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • Let him go on his own mary way he's already broke your heart once so don't let him do it again..
    Im sorry to hear that he did that to you men can be dick heads sometimes. Your broken heart will heal and you will find someone that will love you for you.. GL
    raemommy

    Answer by raemommy at 9:07 AM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • Something that helps ME.. KARMA... What he has done to YOU, she will do to HIM!!! Like one mom said what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger!! You WILL survive!! Pull yourself together and get YOUR life in order!! GOOD LUCK mama!!
    honeys_sugamama

    Answer by honeys_sugamama at 9:12 AM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • I am not going to feel sorry for you, because you are so special, they way you let him go proves you are the wonderful person in the world. You have a great patience. And that symbolize you are the real lady, and real ladies always move forward, when you think about it it will give you more thinking and disappointment all you have to do is be yourself as you are.
    No body born in this world with friends and relations it happens with time, there is a real man waiting for you find him and enjoy your life, he is the unluckiest person who missed a great lady like you.
    Get up dress up put on good makeup step outside look how beautiful the world is its calling you from each way you turn, blooming flowers will bow you even animals will love you when you love everything around you your life will be heaven, the right person will come and meet you at right time, because god knows which is best.
    BELIEVE IN YOU WORLD WILL CHANGE FOR YOU.
    harjohan

    Answer by harjohan at 9:17 AM on Apr. 22, 2009

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