From experience I know. My daughter is going through it now. Her former, father of their two girls was living a double life for nearly two years, very abusive to her throughout. We moved them out during the night for protection as he work then. She now lives six hours away from him close to her family, unfortunately close to his family too. Now two years later she begins to date someone the former finds out. First, he began to brain wash their youngest of seven years to live with him. He comes face, to face with her date at her residence, showing up unexpectedly during a dinner party with four people. Her date didn't back down just stare right back at him. The next early morning she finds the former in his car waiting, and watching her home. He made the excuse he wanted to take the youngest to school. He never left the area to go home nor to find work. He isn't paying child support either. Refuses to obey court orders fired.
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:16 AM on Apr. 22, 2009