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How many agree a relationship isn't a relationship without agruments?

I hate when girls agree with everything freaking thing their SO says..

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:29 PM on Apr. 22, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I think people aren't really being themselves if they never disagree on things. Everyone is different and no two people have the same views of EVERY subject. Disagreements are a good thing when does with respect for the other person. I don't know about being a "real relationship" but I do think they aren't being totally open and honest about things.

    DDry

    Answer by DDry at 4:33 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • I argue w my SO but I know a couple who doesn't and so does my SO everyone has a different relationship so if thats their thing then its their thing. You do not need to argue to have validation of a relationship.
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 4:37 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • Sometimes you have to if you are not in the mood for agrueing just agrue if you feel like agrueing then do it the making up is what is fun...lol
    Butterfly1108

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 4:39 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • I don't think you can grow as a couple with out learning how to work things out. If a couple always agrees, and never argues, they can't learn how to do that. And that would be a very boring relationship!
    Buffie95

    Answer by Buffie95 at 4:45 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • Me and hubby don't argue. Theres nothing to argue about, i mean I disagree with some of his views and im sure he disagrees with mine but we don't constantly have an argument, have like once before... ?
    kylesboo

    Answer by kylesboo at 4:47 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • we've ^^
    kylesboo

    Answer by kylesboo at 4:47 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • My husband and I very rarely argue over anything. That does not mean that I don't sometimes disagree with him, or that he never disagrees with me. We just know how to communicate our feelings with out the screaming and shouting that usually accompanies an argument. We've been together nearly 11 years, and we have never said anything intentionally hurtful to each other. When we disagree, we only discuss the topic we are disagreeing about, and do not bring other things into it. If I get to the point that I am pissed, I wont talk to him until I calm down, or if I can see he is pissed, I wont talk to him until he calms down. We never leave things unresolved permanently, but we both feel it is better to discuss them without the anger clouding your view.
    my2.5boys

    Answer by my2.5boys at 4:51 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • disagree does not mean an argument. People can disagree with each other tactfully. DH and I rarely ever fight and we have the best relationship!!
    ZaTa

    Answer by ZaTa at 4:53 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • argument doesn't always mean yelling and screaming! Sometimes we have arguments over something we disagree about and we may go back and forth with each other but we aren't yelling and screaming.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:08 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • I agree. I think arguments are healthy as long as you are using them to grow. Otherwise, they'd be pointless.
    aMbeR012005

    Answer by aMbeR012005 at 5:16 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

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