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how can i make my bf understand its ok to have sex while im preggers?

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preggers2009

Asked by preggers2009 at 8:00 PM on Apr. 22, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Take him to the Doctor with you and have the Doctor tell him.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:01 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • have him ask the doctor himself i am sorry i don't know other than that if you have him ask the doctor then he hears for himself that nothing will happen
    mommy5409

    Answer by mommy5409 at 8:01 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • why wouldnt he think that its ok...
    pisces_chick89

    Answer by pisces_chick89 at 8:04 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • ya take him to the doctor and you can mention it yourself if he isn't comfy mentioning it. if he won't be comfy at all mentioning it to a doctor you could pull up all the different research on the web. explain to him if there was something that wasn't safe in your situation your doctor would tell you, the doctors job is to make sure you and baby are ok, he could care less wether or not you get to have sex. so if something was wrong he would tell you not to. and explain that the baby can't "see" anything, sperm is not going to make its way to baby, and that the rocking from sex and your orgasm are actually soothing to baby
    vabchmommy

    Answer by vabchmommy at 8:04 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • pisces alot of men are afraid of hurting the baby, its normal. sooooo yeah

    idk my hubby was the same way at first i had to convince him the bby wouldnt break hehe
    :) try taking him when you go to the docs
    kylesboo

    Answer by kylesboo at 8:11 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • Hahaha...my so doesn't have that problem what so ever. Try telling him that when you're pregnant women experience the best orgasms of their lives. (well, most women) I know i am. Its awesome. he loves it.
    mum-to-be-at-18

    Answer by mum-to-be-at-18 at 8:15 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • Plant your mouth on his manhood and tell him how good it would feel if he was inside you. Make him so horny he can't say no and explain that many preggo women have fantastic sex when they are preggo, and tell him to shut up and take it... and then take him!!!! :)
    mamofive

    Answer by mamofive at 8:43 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • how far are you? i'm sure he just doesnt want to hurt the baby. and yes, take him to the dr and ask there.
    m4m4

    Answer by m4m4 at 8:55 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • Well that is one thing that the doc's go over that it is ok to still have sex. It wont hurt the baby, and it is actually good for the women, unless other complications, but if none, then yeah totally fine. But the doc's go over that and have him go with you when you go to the doc's and the doc will tell him.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:04 PM on Apr. 22, 2009

  • I agree take him to the doctor or look on WebMD or a true health website online.
    achevymomma

    Answer by achevymomma at 10:27 AM on Apr. 23, 2009

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