It can work, but it takes great strength. Without details it's hard to say, but try your best to put your pain aside and focus on the child.... You will need support from family and friends now-- this is a very heartbreaking thing. You must have had dreams that are now forever changed, and you'll have to adjust to that. Make sure that dad and new girlfriend are safe for your your child to be with, and beyond that, find some support for yourself. It will not hurt so much as time passes.
at 1:03 PM on Apr. 23, 2009