When I found out I was pregnant me and my now husband were only together a month. Now I am 7 months pregnant and dont think he really loves me. He has been looking for ways to not trust me, and says I am getting more distance from him. But he is the one that is getting more distance, when he comes home from work all he does is gets on the comp or play his xbox. He used to talk to my belly, kiss it and rub it, but now that is rare, maybe once a week. I am really thinking he doesn't love me, and he only says that because of the baby. The thing is I really do love him, but if doesnt love me I dont want to hold him down, Idk, it hurts me just thinking, what if I was never pregnant would he still be with me? I know we would not be married, he wanted to get married so I am cover by his insurance and didnt have to go on state, also to make giving the baby his last name a lot easier. What should i do?Answer Question
Answer by TheDiva320 at 2:16 PM on Apr. 23, 2009
First of all, you can give your child whatever name you like without being married. You could name your kid luke skywalker. I do understand the insurance thing, but most insurances will allow two people living together to be under the same insurance as long as they are both single unless it's (military). Getting pregnant is NEVER a good reason to marry someone. My suggestion would be that both of you get to a therapist to talk over these issues.
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