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So when hubz comes home...

from work and your having a streesful day. Does he hear you out or does he tell you to shut up like mines does? lol

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Asked by roxxxy at 2:47 PM on Apr. 23, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I work, he doesn't. Yes, he always listens to me rant, which usually ends up a funny story (I work with dogs....the dogs are funny, the people are jerks). He makes dinner in advance, keeps it calm.

    Answer by EireLass at 2:55 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • If he ever told me to
    shut up...
    him and his crap would be at the door...
    R E S P E C T
    Find out what it means...

    Answer by Dannee at 2:58 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • Half and half.. Although he doesn't literally say "shut up" but there are days where he thinks that because he was busier then usual, that automatically means his day was more stressful then mine... We have 4 kids, they are pretty good typical kids, but they have lots of afterschool activities, and I am ALWAYS the one who has to do everything with that stuff... So when he comes in and says "what a busy day" sometimes i want to choke him, but most days I just laugh, because men are not WOMEN!! They can only do one thing at a time ;-]

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:58 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • Part of what I do is to greet him with a hug and kiss and smile. If he seems distracted, I say "rough day?" If he grunts or shrugs, then I know to back off. Guys need their space. They aren't like ladies, who need to talk about it. I give him a nice supper, let him eat in peace, and later on if he seems more relaxed I talk about my day, backing off if he still seems distracted. It is what I do because I love him and want him to be as happy and comfortable as I can help him be.

    Answer by Bmat at 3:10 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • Whoa...take it easy MRs. Brady lol i was joking did the lol not give it away? LOL


    Answer by roxxxy at 3:14 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • Nope mine listens, even if he really isnt he lets me think he is that way once I am all done with my ranting and raving we can have a normal evening lol

    Answer by hautemama83 at 3:18 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • MY DH always akes how my day went and tries to help me unwind by talking about it and find humor in what we have talked about.

    Answer by mandic at 3:21 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • Yo Ms Roxxy alot of people hide behind their little
    lol 's so shut up LOL

    Answer by Dannee at 3:41 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • My husband listens...or pretends to at least :)

    Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 5:24 PM on Apr. 23, 2009

  • Well, MRs. Brady lol aint no hiding over here! LOL

    Answer by roxxxy at 1:10 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

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