Me and my boyfriend were engaged but stuff happened and we were gonna lose the house so I moved into my Mom's with my kids and stepkids and my boyfriend moved in after and I said we should call off the engagement for a bit,but now me and him feel the relationship isn't working,he hasn't said this but I know he does and he's gotten my best friend pregnant and he said it was a drunken mistake but I don't believe him but I don't know what to do for the best because there are kids involved and my kids don't deserve the disruption and neither do his kids and I don't want my youngest son growing up without a father like my two daughters are having to do because I believe its important to have a parent in your life thats the same sex as you. What do I do?Answer Question
Leave. He can still be a parent without you two being together. That's just an excuse why he did what he did but it doesn't matter. Your friend is just as nasty as him. A friend wouldn't do that anyway. Leave em both in the dust.
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You'd rather your children have a father that slept with your bestfriend and who will be having their sibling with her than no father at all? Wow girlie, that' s not much of a choice you've given yourself. Notice I said you've given yourself. Life is full of choices you have decided that these are the only two options when there are plenty more options out there. In my opinion, ditch the loser collect child support and get yourself in therapy.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 4:58 PM on Apr. 23, 2009
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