The notes thing is a good idea. I also make sure anytime I go to the grocery store, I pick something up that isn't on the list but something I know he will love. For example, my husband loves this certain brand of beef jerky but we never really buy it so sometimes, I will pick up a package of it just because i saw it and thought of it. Or something else that he likes. I send him random text messages during the day just to tell him I love him. I have taken pictures of myself blowing kisses at him and emailed them to him while we are both at work. Believe it or not, it's really important to men when their wife listens carefully to them and picks up on the little things. We seem to think we are the ones who want that but men do too. I try to listen so little things he says and go with that. Sometimes it's something he wants but keeps forgetting to buy or something small like that. But he loves when I remember.
at 2:14 PM on Apr. 24, 2009