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If you cosleep and have sex while cosleeping and the baby/toddler wakes up do you finish up or stop and put them back to sleep first?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:06 PM on Apr. 24, 2009 in General Parenting

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  • Gross! When we coslept, we would put the baby to sleep and then do it somewhere else.
    misselphaba

    Answer by misselphaba at 8:20 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • Would you nurse them back to sleep while DH finishes up?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:20 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • Having sex with your kid in the bed? Wow..must be boring sex..

    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 8:29 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • thats just disgusting.your child should not be in your bed while you're having sex.
    starryeyez23

    Answer by starryeyez23 at 8:37 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • why in the hell are you having sex with your child in the same bed if you were a real mother you would but your child to bed FIRST THEN SEX
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:55 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • I dont think that is fair you are all judging us moms who have no other choice then to have sex while our child is clonked out on the other side of the bed! What harm is it doing him...it doesnt bother him or wake him and if he happens to wake its immediately stopped...I am sure a lot of mothers do worse things and because my son sleeps in my bed and is asleep while my hubby and I do our thing...doesnt make me NOT a mother just a mother who isnt able to do it anywhere else
    Bugsmommy1908

    Answer by Bugsmommy1908 at 9:11 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • You said it well Bugsmommy. Its nobody's business in the first place.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:13 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • And we wonder what is wrong with kids these days.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:13 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • That is nasty...why would you have sex in the bed while your child is sleeping next to you....how rude!
    Nera1214

    Answer by Nera1214 at 9:14 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

  • Well, if you think its okay, nothing wrong, tell that to social services and see if they agree w/you....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:17 PM on Apr. 24, 2009

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