I have been with my man for two years, its the longest realtionship I have ever had. I love him and everything about him hes my best friend. there's also a piece of me that doesnt want to be in a realtionship(I have been through alot lately I have had hard choices to make and its been through court and stuff bad) and I feel like I wanna be alone with ym family but at the same time I know Ill miss him and we agreed theres no getting back together if it happens. I just feel the ends coming and its all me, I dont want to break his heart he makes me happy but I cant shake this nto wanting to be in a realtionship thing, I just keep sayin its stress. I dont think breaking up and getting back together is healthy. and any seperation even to stay with y famiyl for a week with my son is being seperated in his mind.Answer Question
Answer by HunnysFarAway at 1:55 AM on Apr. 25, 2009
Answer by Precious333 at 1:56 AM on Apr. 25, 2009
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Answer by moki1984 at 9:19 AM on Apr. 25, 2009
I think that although it seems like you two love each other that it isn't fair to him for him to be the only one that wants the relationship. There is nothing wrong with knowing and acting on what's best for you, if you do not want to be in a relationship then it is what it is and at least you are being honest. I also agree with your so that separating isn't the best solution if you can't work out your problems together as a couple separating isn't going to do anything but handle whatever your side of the situation is you will still come home to the problems you share.
Take time to think about why you don't want to be in a relationship, talk to your man, you will then see what the right answer is for the both of you; and don't be afraid to act on it.
Answer by nateandlo at 1:47 PM on Apr. 25, 2009
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