I'm in love with my man, but lately he seems to be so distant and cold towards me. I don't know why. But I've tried to spice things up and show him I care. I've gotten that new his/her lube, I've made him a romantic dinner, keep cleaning the house spotless, Given him cards, left romantic/sexy/sweet notes in random places, got him a awesome gift for no reason, cleaned his car etc etc and yet....he seems checked out. He hasnt put in any effort towards showing me love, affection....romance!!
Any ideas on how to address this or how to get him to be more romantic?
I want 100% from him.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:01 PM on Apr. 25, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:05 PM on Apr. 25, 2009
Answer by kylesboo at 1:14 PM on Apr. 25, 2009
Answer by NannyB. at 1:16 PM on Apr. 25, 2009
Well how does he respond to your efforts? Does he acknowledge them, or appreciate them at all? It is hard to give advice when you don't have all the info, but I will take a stab at it anyway. If you answered no to my first 2 questions, then it really does sound like he has checked out emotionally. You need to sit him down and talk to him calmly about your needs and wants as well as his. If you say yes, then just tell him what you would like from him. Being Open and honest is the best thing we can do for our marriages.
Answer by Familytyme at 1:21 PM on Apr. 25, 2009
Answer by Brandi300 at 2:39 PM on Apr. 25, 2009
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