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Did losing your virginity hurt and did you bleed?

I have a teen who is asking a lot of questions about sex lately and I want to know how to answer her about this. My mother told me that it would hurt really bad and that I would bleed...and I think she may have just been exaggerating to keep me from becoming sexually active. When I lost mine it didn't hurt and I didn't bleed, so I want to know what is realistic for her to expect? I don't want to tell her it wont hurt or anything if there is a good possibility that it would.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:44 PM on Apr. 25, 2009 in Just for Fun

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Answers (86)
  • Mine didn't hurt at all and I don't think I bled...if I did it was really minimal. I don't think anyone could possibly enjoy their first time, but no, it didn't hurt me.
    kabbot01

    Answer by kabbot01 at 9:02 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • Yes, it hurt really bad and I bled all over.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:45 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • It hurt me and I did not bleed.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:45 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • no it didnt really hurt me. i was brushed burned a little though.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:46 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • It hurt me for the first few seconds... but then I was fine, and didn't bleed. Wasn't enjoyable by any means tho.
    emmetsmom09

    Answer by emmetsmom09 at 8:47 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • tell her that it hurt so bad!!!! and her hole wont be the same for a month!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:47 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • I swear it felt like months of trying with my bf, now husband. We lost our virginity to one another when we were 17. It hurt so badly. I remember saying "I cant wait until this doesnt hurt anymore!" lol. And once I actually Lost my virginity it bled a little. But not much.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:51 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • It stung didnt really hurt(Like my mom said it would) and I bled a tiny bit...like maybe the size of a half dollar.
    Amaranth361

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 8:52 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • it really wasn't enjoyable AT ALL, it sucked and i was like "what the hell was that all about?"
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:53 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

  • no and no
    Fallaya

    Answer by Fallaya at 8:59 PM on Apr. 25, 2009

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