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Do you feel "baby daddy" and "baby momma" are offensive and derogatory?

Do you get offended if you are referred to that way?

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Asked by His_Mommy26 at 12:33 AM on Apr. 26, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Not in my situation. My fiance and I are engaged and his friends call me baby momma all the time. It might be different if my fiance and I no longer had any relationship and I was referred to as the baby momma.

    Answer by Ash9724 at 12:34 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • nope my husband calls me his baby momma all the time and i do the same to him..its like a lil inside joke...

    Answer by vabchmommy at 12:37 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • Yes I certainly do. I would never refer to myself as that...

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:38 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • Not as much as it sounds irritating.

    Answer by jmpeskie at 12:38 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • Sometimes i'll joke around and call my SO my baby daddy and he'll call me his baby mama..but theres time when it annoys the hell out of me. If his friends and family came around and only called me his baby mama instead of his girlfriend, I would be extremely pissed off. The way I see those names is, your baby mama/daddy is someone you aren't with anymore and they have or are having your kid. I'll stick to girlfriend.

    Answer by Marix3 at 12:43 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • I hope I am not referred to that way. I think it sounds stupid. I perfer ex-wife.

    Answer by BingsMommy at 12:46 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • I think it's low class and trashy.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:47 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • Shut up anon :47 no it isn't..

    Answer by kylesboo at 12:48 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • i think when you are saying it to someone that is in a stable relationship like the above people say and its jokingly and funny and they both know it its not. but when someone is saying
    "ma baby daddy n meh rnt togetha n i want him t pay meh baby support!"


    it repulses me

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:49 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • yeah i agree with anonymous!!! and it is low class and trashy.

    Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 12:50 AM on Apr. 26, 2009

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