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I told my husband no sex until, he cuts off ties with his baby's mama.

Is this fair?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:19 PM on Apr. 26, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (43)
  • No. You knew about his "baby mama" ahead of time. Contact Jerry Springer.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:22 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • NOPE
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:22 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • Um, he needs to talk to her regarding the baby. So you are way wrong
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:23 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • no it isn't fair. They will always have a bond and relationship.He needs to be in that childs life. However it should be a friendly relationship within boundries.
    pagirl71

    Answer by pagirl71 at 8:25 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • No, you are wrong. Do not get into a relationship with a man who already has children if you cannot handle it.
    Magpie75

    Answer by Magpie75 at 8:26 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • Unless his child is 18 or that child lives w/you two. You are way out of line. How about you go with what yor feeling, enforce your ultimadum, so that he can go out and cheat on you or better yet you all can get a divorce, and then he can marry again, have a child and let his new wife tell him, he has to cut ties with you. i guess your baby can call him and tell him when he needs diapers, pampers, and wipes.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:26 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • No. You are totally wrong. Is that how you are always going to get your way. How old are you? You were woman enough to take on the responsiblity of a child of his now you act like this.
    Vivian63

    Answer by Vivian63 at 8:26 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • no. its not fair. if he was with her and not you would you want him to stop talking to you and your kid? now if the kid is like 15 or older then he doesnt have to talk to her. but they should be allowed to talk about their kid. even if it's just text messaging.
    mommykayti

    Answer by mommykayti at 8:27 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • We were in a realtionship had 2 kids and then he met her while we were on a break up. They have one child.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:28 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

  • She buggs my husband. I want him to change his number and call her when he wants to know something. She needs to get over him and move on. Or better yet she can call me when she needs something and i will put him on the phone after her kid is already on it to speak to him.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:30 PM on Apr. 26, 2009

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